I've figured out how to use LJ to (mostly) meet all my requirements for posting sex/kink/etc. stuff. I've created a new user for all those posts: xxxtourist . All of my past NSFW posts won't be moving over there, but that's where all future TMI stuff will go, so if you want to read that, just add xxxtourist to your friends list. I promise not to be offended even a little if you don't.